Partner compatibility

My partner nicole is an ENFJ and I am an ENTJ. The personalitiy of an ENTJ is one that makes palns and tends to direct. These plans happen to be realistic and practical. They are decisive and tend to avoid conflict. They may be very argumentative and is not one to be argued with. ENFJ's are extremely charismatic. ENFJ's follow their dreams no matter how practical it is. ENFJ's are very good interpersonal people. They are quick to neglect their own needs for the needs of others. ENFJ's are not always decisive in their decisions. With these facts, our relationship is strong in that one is very practical while the other is idealistic. Also, one has a loving personalitiy, ideal for children and parenting. A weakness would be that I tend to avoid conflict while she may want to talk it out.

Obituary

Dad loved being around people. He greatly enjoyed conversation and relating with people that he intimately knew and just met. He never put material possessions or dreams get in the way of helping people. Many people would say that he was a good friend. Others would say that he was a great adviser or counselor. His family members would say that he was a great husband, father, and grandfather. All these great compliments were results of his undying love for humanity.
Even his job dealt with helping others. As a doctor, he was never driven by wealth or profit. Instead, he was driven by healing others to the best of his abilities. He was always a doctor who cared about his patients and not just his patients' money.
Most of all, he loved God. His undying passion for Christianity brought many to accept the truth of the gospel. He was very active in church and in the community. Always sharing his faith, he tried to be like Jesus every single day. He helped the poor and cared for them.
His life is celebrated by the many lives that he touched.

The woman my parents want me to marry

My mom would like me to marry a Korean so she could relate with her better. My mom would also like for me to be happy in my marriage. She said marriages could make or break someone’s life. My mom said that she wants grandchildren so she wants my future spouse to want children. The most important thing to her is that the woman is a Seventh Day Adventist. My dad would like me to also marry a Korean but he is more accepting of other races. My dad wants me to marry someone who is also Seventh Day Adventist because faith is very important to him. He also said to marry someone who could be a good mother to my kids. My dad told me that out of marriage you should be happier instead of regretful.

What I look for in a woman

What I must have in a woman is someone who is outgoing and can hold a conversation. I must have a woman who is Christian. The woman must plan to have children. I must have a woman who is fun to be around. I should be able to have a good time when I am with her. I must have a woman who is family oriented and whose family and my family accept one another. What I wish for is a woman who is Seventh Day Adventist. I wish that the woman is very beautiful. I want a woman that likes to snowboard and play sports. I wish the woman is very good at cooking. I wish the woman I marry is intelligent and wise. I want the woman to be funny. I wish that the woman is Asian. I cannot have a woman who is atheist. I cannot have a woman who is high maintenance. I cannot have a woman who is ditsy or an airhead.

Parents' advice on money

My parents cannot stress that saving is the key to best managing money. My dad says to put aside 5-10% of your paycheck into a savings account or retirement account. He says that you never know when you might be laid off or some illness comes over you. My mom says to be wary of expensive purchases such as nice cars or nice homes. They said that it is not bad to buy an expensive car or nice home, but not at the expense of other important necessities.
They also said to be careful in the purchases I make. Even simple purchases such as clothes can leave me with no money. Also, my parents say that always pay in cash if you can. Only use credit cards for when you have no cash, online purchases, or big purchases. They believe that simple purchases such as grocery or food should never be charged onto a credit card. My dad also stressed that no matter how thin your paycheck may get, always give back 10% for tithe.